(If you’re a “freak” take your mind out of the gutter)
Guest Writer
EnVogue Price
Ever seen your man out with that chick and swore he was flirting with her? Did you even take out the time to see who the chick was? It could’ve been his cousin or rather attractive auntie. Lack of communication is one of the reasons why a woman can’t keep a man. It's always, “you’re cheating”, “sleeping around”, or “you’re just with me to have somewhere to put your raggedy car”. The majority of the time it’s the total opposite on the dude's end. By constantly nagging and calling Shareka every time something goes down, it makes him go out and peruse/pursue (Take your pick) his other options.
In a relationship the whole thing is based on communication. Most men state in the beginning what they are looking for: Whether it’s long term, short term, or “I need you cause my baby momma is trippin” term. Women, though, want the dude to be a natural Houdini and wave his “magic stick” (Take your mind out the gutter…. Wait, no, leave it there...) and automatically know what she wants or expects from the relationship. When, really, the woman should open her mouth and say what she wants.
I’d bet if your man asked “what color hair you wear” so he can buy some new weave women won’t hesitate to open their mouths. Just like the man can lay it out on the line, so can YOU. Why be together or think about being together and ya’ll are on three different pages? It doesn’t make sense. Start on a strong foundation, know what you want, say what you want, and maybe your relationship will last.
Breaking Down The Myth is opening the floor up to writer's, bloggers and random 'experts' at chit chat on relationships to get a diverse opinion on friendship and relationships. If you'd like to write an article, and you can crack a joke or two, hit me up at cdburns@cbpublish.com
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